Just call me Selfish

Every single day for over 25 years, all of my thoughts and energy has gone to someone else. It was 25 years ago I became a mom for the first time. I held a beautiful baby boy in my arms and my life changed.

Life from that moment was no longer about me. Every move was in the best interest of my child/children. Five children and years of giving later, I noticed something. I became severely annoyed, agitated, unsettled and depressed.

My kids are older and no longer need me in the same way.

I wasn't prepared! I found myself depressed & unhappy. Why? Because I had no life of my own. So I changed that. Now, I take a annual solo trip for a weekend. I take myself to lunch/dinner regularly. I go to events to meet other moms. And lots of other things that will help me get to know WHO I AM. I take every opportunity to do something for me. No more guilt when I buy new shoes or a purse. I deserve just as much love as I give. Especially from myself.

You deserve it too! Giving attention to you doesn't mean you neglect your other responsibilities. Self care means you are included in your responsibilities.

My question for you:

How can you love on you this month??